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Showing posts with label beauty for pain. Show all posts
Showing posts with label beauty for pain. Show all posts
Saturday, August 4, 2018
Pain Relief Massager at Home or Office or Car
We can't always go and get a massage by a professional. The next best thing is to have options and find devices that provide similar relief. I've been doing some searching and this has over 1500 reviews. Shiatsu back and neck massager looks like it would do the trick.
Naipo Shiatsu provides heat and deep kneading. I believe you can even use it on your feet. In fact according to their description it has uses including abdomen and can be used.
It comes it two colors, has arm rests and has various settings. When you are in pain this looks like a great option.
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Wednesday, July 5, 2017
SAD Never got a Response From New York Botanical Garden , Please Give the Disabled Discount Tickets
The Disabled Deserve Access To Beauty and New York Resources!
People with disabilities are here, alive and entitled to a a life with joy and opportunities. But the cost for the disabled is high and money coming in is usually very low, poverty level in fact, unless they happen to have some saved resources, which many do not.
Beauty for Pain©
One of my passions is to infuse beauty into my and other's lives to ease the pain that comes with many disabilities. I call it Beauty for Pain©.For those who live in an urban area, going to simple natural space like a park or garden does wonders for a person in pain. But what if that place offers discounts for other populations but not the disabled? Would you feel even more pain? A lack of inclusion in enjoying the healing benefits of nature?
In search of an oasis New York Botanical Garden but shocked at what I found
Personally I could benefit from the beauty nature exhibits in the Botanical Garden. With limited funds I searched if they had any discounts. This is what i found:I then contacted them shocked the disabled population was not included in their discount program. Where was the discount for persons with disabilities? Not there. In fact, please see what I got from the New York City's Botanical Garden Spokesperson.
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Greetings Ms. Navarro,
Thank you for contacting Ticketing Support at the New York Botanical Garden. Unfortunately, we currently do not offer a discount for our disabled guests. As with most cultural institutions, a discount for the disabled is not commonly offered. We will inform our upper management regarding your concerns. Feel free to visit the Garden on Wednesdays or Saturday mornings before 10am for a free Grounds ticket. The Grounds ticket includes access to our beautiful 250 acre grounds including the Native Forest, Azalea Garden, and Rose Garden. Be advised, the grounds ticket does not include full access to the CHIHULY exhibition, the tram tour and Everett Children’s Adventure Garden. If you have any further questions feel free to contact us at any time.
Sabrina M.
Ticketing Support
The New York Botanical Garden
2900 Southern Boulevard
Bronx, NY 10458
718.817.8716
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Sent: Monday, July 03, 2017 5:21 PM
To: ticketingsupport
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Sent: Monday, July 03, 2017 5:21 PM
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Diana Navarro
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I see you don't have discounts for people with disabilities, why is that? I am in my 40's but do get medicare and am disabled with financial limitations. Going to Botanical Garden would be therapeutic for my condition but I don't see you offer discounts for people like me but you do for students, seniors etc.
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Wait, What Just happened in this Email Exchange?
I'm afraid given the choice of only one day on the grounds was not what I was looking for. I may need to be indoors depending on my current health situation and most importantly I want to enjoy the exhibit just like the students, seniors and children. What is the logical, reasonable reason for not including people with disabilities, can someone please explain?
Dear "upper management", time to make some positive change for the disabled.
Thursday, May 4, 2017
It takes Courage to be Seen: Excerpt from Daily OM Madisyn Taylor
~I read this article and had to share in the moment where I have decided to engage on my next life project of sharing my life story as an empath~
| Letting Yourself Be Seen |
A powerful healing tool can be allowing yourself to be witnessed by your friends, sharing your pain to a listening audience.
Our friends and loved ones can easily be witnesses for us, if only we are brave enough to let them. Your next birthday may be the perfect occasion to experience this sacred act: Invite your friends and loved ones to your special day. During the celebration, stand in front of them and thank them for being there for you. Feel their gratitude, attention, warmth, and support, while noticing the sense of safety you feel as they surround you. If you feel inspired, share your innermost thoughts about the day and your life. You may be surprised at the feelings of peace and validation that arise within you, when you feel safe enough to go deep into your soul and share yourself with those you trust. Anyone who has ever seen love, admiration, acceptance, or appreciation reflected in a friend or loved one's eyes knows how transformative that experience can be. When you bare yourself to another, you are giving them the gift of you and showing them that they also matter. In letting yourself be witnessed, you are letting others into your intimate space, stepping in the sacred container they have created for you, and creating a cauldron of positive affirmation, support, love, and goodwill that will stay with you forever.
~Diana Navarro, M.S.
Finding the Beautiful Things in LIfe--Including Manners
#bitesizehealing
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Ten Habits of Highly Effective Karma Managers -Beauty for Pain
Ten Habits of Highly Effective Karma Managers
Originally from Beliefnet which Reprinted with permission of Hinduism Today.
First Principle: Forego Retaliation
There is no need for you to be the instrument to return a karmic reaction to someone else. For example, an individual is really nasty to you, so you feel the impulse to retaliate and be nasty to him. If you follow that tack, you will create a new unseemly karma to face in the future. Better to let the law of karma take its own course without your intervention, which will generally happen through some other person with less self-control who does not understand this law of life. Let us take another example: a classic cowboy movie plot. Someone shoots and kills the hero's brother during a robbery, and the rest of the film is devoted to his chasing down the outlaw and shooting him in revenge. What, then, happens in the next life, the sequel? There is definitely a karma to be faced for killing in revenge. Perhaps another robbery will take place and the hero will be killed. Wisdom tells us that it is better to let the sheriff apprehend the outlaw and bring him to justice. The sheriff has taken an oath and is authorized to uphold the law and therefore creates no negative karma in capturing the outlaw, even if he has no choice but to kill him in the process.Gurudeva said, "Retaliation is a terrible, negative force. When we retaliate against others, we build up a bank account of negative karma that will come back on us full force when we least expect it."Tirukural: "Forget anger toward all who have offended you, for it gives rise to teeming troubles.
There is no need for you to be the instrument to return a karmic reaction to someone else. For example, an individual is really nasty to you, so you feel the impulse to retaliate and be nasty to him. If you follow that tack, you will create a new unseemly karma to face in the future. Better to let the law of karma take its own course without your intervention, which will generally happen through some other person with less self-control who does not understand this law of life. Let us take another example: a classic cowboy movie plot. Someone shoots and kills the hero's brother during a robbery, and the rest of the film is devoted to his chasing down the outlaw and shooting him in revenge. What, then, happens in the next life, the sequel? There is definitely a karma to be faced for killing in revenge. Perhaps another robbery will take place and the hero will be killed. Wisdom tells us that it is better to let the sheriff apprehend the outlaw and bring him to justice. The sheriff has taken an oath and is authorized to uphold the law and therefore creates no negative karma in capturing the outlaw, even if he has no choice but to kill him in the process.Gurudeva said, "Retaliation is a terrible, negative force. When we retaliate against others, we build up a bank account of negative karma that will come back on us full force when we least expect it."Tirukural: "Forget anger toward all who have offended you, for it gives rise to teeming troubles.
Second Principle: Accept Responsibility
Karma generally manifests through other people, and thus it is easy to see the other person as totally responsible for what happens to us. For example, you are attacked by a mugger who strikes you and steals your valuables. You are quite upset with the malicious thief. However, the mystical perspective is to see yourself as responsible for whatever happens to you. You are, through your actions in the past, the creator of all that you experience in the present. You caused your loss; the thief is just the instrument for returning your karma to you.Of course, it is easy to apply this principle when the effect is an enjoyable one (we know intuitively when we get good things that we deserve them) and not so easy to apply it when it is not enjoyable, but in both cases we are equally responsible. In the end, you have no one to praise but yourself when your life is filled with successes and no one to blame but yourself when your life is filled with difficulties. Gurudeva said, "As long as we externalize the source of our successes and failures, we perpetuate the cycles of karma, good or bad. There is no one out there making it all happen. Our actions, thoughts and attitudes make it all happen. We must accept and bear our karma cheerfully."Tirukural: "Why should those who rejoice when destiny brings them good moan when that same destiny decrees misfortune?"
Third Principle: Forgive the Offender
Take as an example a teenage boy on the way home from school. One day a gang of boys teases him for being different in some way and beats him up. A common response is for the teenager to feel angry at the boys and harbor ill feelings toward them for years. This is problematic, however, as it keeps the lower emotions of anger constantly churning in his subconscious mind. Unless he forgives them, he perpetuates the event in his own mind, long after it is over. Gurudeva often told the story of when a man attacked Swami Sivananda, hitting him forcefully in the head with an axe during evening satsang at his Rishikesh ashram. Swamiji's followers were outraged and angrily subdued the man. But Swami Sivananda responded with the opposite sentiment. He asked that the man not be punished or turned over to the police. The next day he met with his attacker and gave him a train ticket home, several spiritual books and money. Swami said, "Thank you so much for being the instrument to bring this karma back to me. Now I am free of it." He felt no anger toward the man whatsoever.Tirukural: "If you return kindness for injuries received and forget both, those who harmed you will be punished by their own shame."
Fourth Principle: Consider the Consequences
Fourth Principle: Consider the Consequences
Quite often our actions are based upon an emotional reaction to what someone has done or said to us. The consequences of such actions are often not clearly and carefully thought about. For example, someone insults you, so you insult them back. If you did reflect, you would see that the consequence of harming someone else with your words in the present is for you to be harmed again in the future by someone else's words. This behavior creates an endless cycle of being harmed and harming others, which is only stopped by considering the consequences before acting and not harming back. Mahatma Gandhi once said, "An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind." So, too, instinctive retaliation ultimately makes the whole world angry. The principle of considering the karmic consequences pertains equally to positive actions. The wisest approach is to not simply react to things that happen to us, but to take time to consider the karmic repercussions of all actions before we take them.The habit of considering the consequences before acting can be developed at an early age when parents and teachers utilize positive discipline methods to help children face the natural and logical consequences of their actions. An insightful letter from Lord Ganesha on consequences in Gurudeva's book Loving Ganesha reminds us: "Keep track of your paces, for your walk makes marks. Each mark is a reward or a stumbling block. Learn to look at the step you have made and the step you have not made yet. This brings you close to Me."Gurudeva elucidates our fourth principle: "It is our reaction to karmas through lack of understanding that creates most karmas we shall experience at a future time." Tirukural: "All suffering recoils on the wrongdoer himself. Thus, those desiring not to suffer refrain from causing others pain."
Fifth Principle: Create No Negative Karmas
Now that we have a good grasp of the karmic consequences of various kinds of actions, what is needed next to progress even further in the management of karma is a firm commitment to refrain from actions that create new negative karma. Perhaps we should all take a pledge, such as "I promise henceforth to refrain from all actions that create negative karmas." This is actually not as difficult as it sounds. How do we know if a specific action will create negative karma or not? Scriptures such as the Tirukural may make mention of it. We can ask a Hindu religious leader his or her opinion. We can ask our parents or elders. And once we get the knack of it, our own conscience will be able to provide the answer most of the time.Gurudeva advises us: "Wise handling of karma begins with the decision to carry the karma we now have cheerfully, and not add to it. A firm decision to live in such a way as to create no new negative karmas is a sound basis for living a religious life, for following the precepts of dharma and avoiding that which is adharmic."Tirukural: "What good is a man's knowledge unless it prompts him to prevent the pain of others as if it were his own pain?"
Sixth Principle: Seek Divine Guidance
We don't have to manage our karma totally on our own. Help is available, divine help, in fact. Such help comes from none other than Lord Ganesha, who has the duty of helping sincere devotees manage their karma in the best way possible. Once, through sincere worship, an individual develops a personal relationship with Ganesha, he naturally drops off any remaining adharmic patterns of behavior and becomes fully established in a dharmic life. Not only does Lord Ganesha help you become established in dharma, but in the best personal dharmic pattern for this life, known as svadharma, your natural occupation and duties to family, friends, relatives, deceased relatives, community, guru and temple. When we seek His permission and blessings before every undertaking, Ganesha, as the Lord of Obstacles, guides our karmas through creating and removing obstacles from our path, similar to a mother's watching over her young children at play. He also has an extraordinary knack for unweaving complicated situations and making them simple. He can unweave His devotees from their karma, clarifying and purifying their lives. How can we invoke this divine guidance when we encounter karmic difficulties? Simply by chanting His name or a simple mantra, or placing a flower at His feet, visiting His temples for puja, meditating on Him or just visualizing His holy form and inviting Him mentally to help in our time of need. He will respond.Gurudeva comments on svadharma, "Such a life is the fulfillment of all previous efforts and thus erases the uncomplimentary deeds and adds beneficial ones, so a next birth can be most rewardingly great and useful to the whole of mankind."Tirukural: "Draw near the Feet of Him who is free of desire and aversion, and live forever free of suffering."
Once we have stopped acting in ways that create new negative karma, our life will be sublime enough to focus on ridding ourselves of karmas of the past, or mitigating them--meaning to make them less harsh, painful or severe. To better understand mitigation, let's make another comparison to the judicial system. A man commits armed robbery and receives a ten- to twenty-year sentence. But due to good behavior in prison, he is paroled after only five years. He has mitigated his sentence, made it less severe, through his good behavior. Let's now take an example of karma that is mitigated. You are destined to lose a leg in this life because you caused someone to lose his in a past life. If you are living a selfish, low-minded kind of life, the karma would come full force and you would lose your leg. However, if you are a kindly person who regularly helps others, the karma would be mitigated and you might read in the morning paper about someone losing a leg and take on the emotion of that experience as if it had happened to you. Later on when hiking you stumble and your leg is injured, but not severely. The full force of the karma was softened by your kind and helpful actions.Following Dharma: Living virtuously, in itself, helps modulate the release of karmic seeds, evening out the ebb and flow of karma and minimizing "karmic explosions" that might otherwise occur. Karma Yoga: Helping others-karma yoga, performing good deeds-and thus acquiring merit which registers as a new and positive karma is one way of alleviating the heaviness of some of our past karma. Bhakti Yoga: Worship, bhakti yoga, that is intense enough to cause us to receive the grace of the Gods can change the patterns of karma dating back many past lives, clearing and clarifying conditions that were created hundreds of years ago and are but seeds now, waiting to manifest in the future. The key here is intensity. Dropping by the temple for fifteen minutes on the way home from work is unlikely to accomplish such a transformation. Pilgrimage: Pilgrimage is an excellent way to generate an intensity of worship. Over the years, Gurudeva's devotees have pilgrimaged to India, visiting major temples such as Chidambaram, Rameshvaram and Palani Hills. Many have come back transformed. They physically look a little different, behave differently and fit back into life in a more positive way than before. Their karma was changed by the grace of the Gods. Vows: A vrata, or vow, can also generate an intensity of worship, such as fasting during the day and attending the temple on each of the six days of Skanda Shashthi or the 21 days of Vinayaga Viratam.Penance: Penance, prayashchitta, is a forth way to mitigate karma. This is like punishing yourself now and getting it over with instead of waiting for your karma to manifest a punishment in the future. A typical form of penance is to perform walking prostrations, such as around a sacred lake or mountain, up a sacred path or around a temple. Often it is advised to perform penance that is directly related to a misdeed. Let's take the example of a teacher who frequently used corporal punishment to discipline students but now strongly feels hitting children for any reason, even for discipline, is wrong. An appropriate penance would be to print and distribute to teachers literature on alternatives to corporal punishment. This type of penance should only be undertaken after a certain degree of remorse is shown and the urgency is felt by the devotee to rid his mind of the plaguing matter. Gurudeva said, "When pre-dawn morning pujas, scriptural reading, devotionals to the guru and meditation are performed without fail, the deeper side of ourselves is cultivated, and that in itself softens our karmas and prolongs life."Tirukural: "Be unremitting in the doing of good deeds; do them with all your might and by every possible means."
Eighth Principle: Accelerate Karma
Why wait twenty more births to achieve spiritual maturity when you could achieve it in two births? That is the idea behind accelerating karma. When we begin meditating and performing regular daily sadhana, preferably at the same time each day, our individual karma is intensified. In our first four or five years of striving on the path we face the karmic patterns that we would never have faced in this life had we not consciously intensified our spiritual practices. Those on the spiritual path resolve much more karma in a lifetime than others. They could be called professional karma managers.Of course, family duties in the grihastha ashrama don't allow much time for sadhana. Thus, the principle of karma acceleration is best fulfilled in the stage called sannyasa, both by those following the path of the monk and by everyone after age seventy-two. Retirement can be more than playing golf. It is an opportunity to intensify our spiritual practices and thus accelerate our karma. Gurudeva said, "By this conscious process of purification, of inner striving, of refining and maturing, the karmas come more swiftly, evolution speeds up and things can and usually do get more intense. Don't worry though. That is natural and necessary. That intensity is the way the mind experiences the added cosmic energies that begin to flow through the nervous system."
Tirukural: "Not allowing a day to pass without doing some good is a boulder that will block your passage on the path to rebirth."
Though some of our dreams are only the result of thoughts occurring in our own mind, other dreams are astral experiences, of being conscious in our astral body and interacting with others in their astral body. These astral plane actions create karma, just as do our physical plane actions. This is the basis of the Hindu ideal that one would not steal or injure even in a dream. Why? Because such transgressions create negative karma that will come back to you. These are real karmas that may eventually manifest on the physical plane. However, this can be avoided if you happen to have further dream experiences in which appropriate actions are taken to dissolve the karma. More commonly, though, we can resolve dream or astral-plane karmas in the same way we would physical-world experiences, by performing penance for them in our waking state, while remembering the high standards of virtue and good conduct that should always be maintained, even during sleep. For instance, if in an emotional dream you injured someone intentionally, you could perform a simple penance the next day to atone, such as fasting one meal.Gurudeva said, "These kinds of dreams-when a person is in his astral body and can feel what he touches, emote to his experiences, think and talk-are not what is known as the dream state. This is an astral experience, similar to the death experience, but the astral body is still connected to the physical body."Tirukural: "The highest principle is this: never knowingly harm anyone at any time in any way."
Tenth Principle: Incinerate Karma
In the practice of yoga, we can burn up negative seed karmas without ever having to live through them. What we have to do is find the seed and dissolve it in intense inner light. Let's take the analogy of growing alfalfa spouts. You place the seeds in a jar and keep them moist until they sprout. But if you heat the seeds in a frying pan before putting them into the jar, they will no longer sprout. Similarly, karmas exposed to intense inner light are destroyed.A meditation adept, having pinpointed an unmanifested karmic seed, can either dissolve it in intense light or inwardly live through the reaction of his past action. If his meditation is successful, he will be able to throw out the vibrating experiences or desires which are consuming the mind. In doing this, in traveling past the world of desire, he breaks the wheel of karma which binds him to the specific reaction which must follow every action. That experience will never have to happen on the physical plane, for its vibrating power has already been absorbed in his nerve system. This incineration of karmic seeds can also happen during sleep.Gurudeva explains it in this way, "It is the held-back force of sanchita karma that the yogi seeks to burn out with his kundalini flame, to disempower it within the karmic reservoir of anandamaya kosa, the soul body."Tirukural: "As the intense fire of the furnace refines gold to brilliance, so does the burning suffering of austerity purify the soul to resplendence."
Conclusion
No matter how deep our understanding of karma may be, actually applying our understanding of karma to the events in our daily life can still be a challenge. Why is this? Our humanness gets in the way; our ego is challenged and we react to preserve our self image; our emotions are stirred and we respond impulsively, without intellectual reflection; our attitudes are prejudicial against certain religious or ethnic groups and we feel justified in striking out at them, because they are not "our people." How can such human weaknesses be overcome? It is by perfecting our character, which Gurudeva defined as "the ability to act with care." This is done through mastering Hinduism's Code of Conduct, the ten yamas, restraints, and the ten niyamas, observances. With a strong character in place, the mastery of karma becomes natural to us. Gurudeva mystically summarizes this process as follows:"Bhakti brings grace, and the sustaining grace melts and blends the karmas in the heart. In the heart chakra karmas are in a molten state. The throat chakra molds the karmas through sadhana, regular religious practices. The third eye chakra sees the karmas past, present and future as a singular oneness. And the crown chakra absorbs, burns clean, enough of the karmas to open the gate, the door of Brahman, revealing the straight path to merging with Siva."
~Diana Navarro, M.S.
Finding the Beautiful Things in LIfe--Including Manners
#bitesizehealing
Wednesday, May 3, 2017
Pink Diamond Limited Edition-Beauty Box
My Tribute to My Beloved Mother
I'm super excited I got this lovely (special edition) beauty box. It's for mother's day and this day is traditionally sad for me since I lost my beloved mom in 1999 when she was only 49, from a rare cancer.I usually get sad and try to focus on the beautiful mothers out there who are still here loving their children. But in addition to that, I decided to do a tribute to my mom by buying this for myself. I am absolutely sure she would have loved it.
I love all the items in this box and am enjoying using them...I know this will get me through this year. Happy Mother's day to all the moms out there.
Pink Diamond Limited Edition take a peak here
~Diana Navarro, M.S.
Finding the Beautiful Things in LIfe--Including Manners
#bitesizehealing
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Tuesday, April 11, 2017
Dating: Online Ridiculousness Avoid ONLINE Scams Part 3B
When Entering the Dating World-Calling out the Online Dating Ridiculousness-3B
Oh No Moment
Bad Advice from magazines and advice columns
This drives me crazy. If you pick up or see any magazine in your device, just browse through the headlines. It’s deplorable. I see this in both women’s and men’s magazines. You will see encouragement to have multiple partners without discussing the risks involved. You will also see advice on sex positions, ways to seduce, turn people on and take risks without warnings of diseases, emotional heartbreak or physical danger risks, or self respect. Then you will see an odd article on treatments for sexually transmitted diseases, which could have been avoided if that bad advice was not given in the first place. Also, there is this false sense that anything can be cured with a pill so there is no real danger in risky sexual business. Since many people are seeking freedom of expression, particularly younger generations, they will choose to ignore the warnings and go with the advice from a large, popular publication. That is heartbreaking in itself.
Oh No Moment
Cuchi-cuchi outfits but “don’t come near me” attitude
This is very common among young women. Especially when they are in groups together in clubs or social places. If you are wearing ultra sexy, seductive outfits, others will assume you are there to attract a sexual partner. That doesn’t mean that if you are the one wearing these outfits you ought to speak to anyone that walks up to you, but it also doesn’t mean you have to be rude and bitchy because someone does approach you. Do yourself and others a favor, don’t send mixed messages. Use common sense instead or layers.
Oh No Moment
Misunderstanding friendliness with flirting
This is one of my biggest pet peeves. I have always been friendly and because I am a healing-empath, I can pick up if someone is feeling insecure or uncomfortable. I try to make them comfortable and reaching out in a positive and healthy way. But no matter how much you try to have a combination of boundaries and friendliness some people will misunderstand my intentions. This can be maddening because I know they long for affection and acceptance, but they don’t know how to receive it without connecting with a past trauma or thinking there is an ulterior motive. Many times, I have to choose not to be affectionate so they don’t think I’m somehow romantically interested. This can happen with both men and women. And again, it is because they are not accustomed to affection and for whatever reason, they misunderstand and mistake what my intentions are. In these cases I say, stay true to oneself and don’t take on their issues. Stay loving and open with healthy boundaries and right people will come into your life.
Oh No Moment
Avoiding being scammed online (or in any way) by a person using dating as a ruse
Many people, especially women get themselves into serious trouble by attracting and pursuing partners who are scammers, criminals and all around scoundrels. They do this due to loneliness, the savior syndrome (thinking they can change the person), an attraction to “bad boys”, or confusing love with other issues like attraction, acceptance and validation. In any case, these kinds of relationship almost always end in heartbreak, and worst; violence, jail and even death. Here I will simply address how to detect when someone is a con artist when meeting or going online to find a romantic partner. I will use he, she or both to indicate that con artists can be of either gender.
- A con artist, usually from outside the United States, says he is a professional living or traveling abroad.
- Con artist usually uses instant messaging or TTY services for the deaf to disguise their un-American accents.
- A suitor who declares his/her love for you too quickly.
- In addition to declaring their love, they may want to immediately know of your actions and control them.
- A con artist doesn’t share specific information about their own life or work. Don’t confuse it for it being romantically mysterious. It’s probably a huge warning sign of something shady.
- A man (or woman) who sends you a fake photo of a male model or well-dressed older man that he’s taken off the Internet. The same can be said for a woman.
- Scammers will often string you along for weeks before asking for money.
- They are known to send flowers and candy to sweeten you up.
- Beware if they ask you to wire them money so they can make money for you or to pay their travel expenses so they can be with you. You cannot get this money back. Do NOT send it.
- Sometimes they will even pretend they know someone you know on social media saying they had made money for that person. If you know the person they are referring to well you can confirm it but still use caution.
- S/He may insist on seeing you on a Webcam, usually when their Webcam isn’t functioning. They want to make sure you’re not a law enforcement agent. Besides, the photo s/he sent won’t match their real appearance on the Webcam.
- There is always one drama after the next, because he needs funds for his daughter’s college tuition or his mother's hospital bill. Men usually do this type.
- He may ask you to handle his banking transactions in the US, which could lead you to becoming his criminal accomplice.
- Do not wire money because it is gone the moment you send it and you can’t get it back. This bears repeating.
- He may have bought expensive items on stolen credit cards and want you to send them to him. That, too, could lead you to becoming his partner in crime.
- Never, ever give out any personal information and certainly not passwords or other information that would allow him to get into your online accounts.
- At times s/he might even bully you by lying to you about being a fellow victim of a dating scam; or even pretending to be a law enforcement officer tracking down online dating scammers. A real law enforcement official would never ask you for money or personal information such as your Social Security number or account number over the Internet.
- Report your situation to the dating social media website, as well as the following places below, as soon as possible. Forget being embarrassed. It is more important this person be stopped because chances are they will continue to do this until caught by law enforcement.
If you believe you’ve been scammed, use these resources:
IC3.gov the Federal Internet Crime Complaint Center
Fraud.org the National Consumer’s Fraud Center
The U.S. Postal Inspection Service because you used the postal system.
~Diana Navarro, M.S.
Finding the Beautiful Things in LIfe--Including Manners
Finding the Beautiful Things in LIfe--Including Manners
#bitesizehealing
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