Back on January 1 2013 I recorded a few seconds of video on my digital camera. I was trying to capture the sunrise to post up a social media post wishing everyone a good New Year Morning. Instead I saw these lights pulsating. My camera stopped working during this for some reason so I could not record as long as I wanted. I also tried to get some shots from my phone camera but that didn't work either. This is from the Bronx facing east towards Queens and beyond.
I put it on Youtube to get ideas from folks as to what it could be. We've had this view for over 2 decades and never saw lights like these before. There is an airport (La Guardia) in this direction and those we are use to seeing. As planes come in to land they flicker beautifully but not pulsate like these did. Also we can see the plans landing and taking off relatively easily and with this there was no landing or movement except they disappeared after a few more minutes after camera stopped recording.
I'm not suggesting anything specific except I did try to contact a few UFO sources including MUFON and they were due to get back to me with some ideas. The agreed it wasn't the typical explanation of regular planes, helicopters, or crazy lanterns (we've never seen those here). I'm including in this blog again hoping to get some follow up on more ideas of what those lights were and why they have not been seen before or again.
Monday, July 14, 2014
Tuesday, June 17, 2014
Social Media Technology Love it or Hate it, It's Here to Stay
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Social Media Technology: Love or Hate it
I’ve made this as a very simple, quick and easy way to get familiar or re-familiarize yourself with Social Media Technology (SMT). I have also included some links for some of the main sites should you wish to explore or try some of these.
Much of this is what I have personally discovered. continue to learn using SMT, and as someone who has a love/hate relationship with it. However, I have found that it is necessary to make an effort to at least have an idea of what's going on out there since we are all being affected in one way or another. Just look around you now, from your watch, phone, television, even appliances. SMT is part of our lives.
Due to its nature, it is impossible to include all that is related to social media technology. But ideally everyone can use this to have confirmation, learn something new, and food for thought and engage more fully their journey through the social media world. I also would like to save you the time and frustration I have gone through navigating through this new world of ours.
Social Media Technology, What is this?
What is social media?Social Media is a type of technology (SMT). One that creates very strong feelings in many of us. Many of us either hate it or love it . I personally have a love/hate relationship with it. It is my contention that for every pro there is a con. And if you are undecided on how to use it, I believe considering both sides is crucial. At minimum we should know what SMT is because it is literally everywhere and can’t be ignored, for too long anyway.
Some researchers are studying the effects social media has on us. SMT however, is constantly evolving and at an ever-increasing rate. The effect of on us is still undetermined and unfolding. It is unlikely we will come up with any definitive conclusion because of its dynamic nature. So the bad news is, resistance is truly futile when it comes to social media in our lives. Good news, there is something for everyone at any level that we can make use of.
This is what we do know thus far. More people are using SMT than ever in our known history. People are spending more time per day on one type of social media or another.
It used to be that teens and those in their twenties were the main users for SMT. Now people of all ages are using it and those 65 and older are using it at an unexpectedly high rate.
My experience, feelings and why I use SMT
Many people don’t know this about me because they may know me as an entertainer, speaker, event lover, but I actually did my Master’s Thesis on the woes and fears of the use of evolving technology. That is because of my own fear associated with its use. Unlike many young people today, I wasn’t born with computers and other technologies being ubiquitous. In fact, we took basic typewriting courses during my high school days, on a typewriter not computer. If there was a computer it had that awful black screen with green fonts and DOS (Disk Operating System) was the main way of using it. We didn't have "window", swiping or systems the way we easily use them today.
In a fairly short time, things have evolved and changed to the point where using a basic computer seems like childsplay for most people. Just slide here, touch there, click other there and boom, you get things done.
What SMT is in a nutshell
Types of SMT range from huge to small websites, programs, applications (apps), and other technology.
Types of SMT range from huge to small websites, programs, applications (apps), and other technology.
Some examples SMT is used for are connecting people to each other via writing, photos, texting, work projects, video chatting, vlogs (videoblogs) networking, gaming, dating, dining, social bookmarking certain sites and general entertainment (streaming movies and shows online).
There are more and more devices using SMT. We have the traditional computer, mobile smart phones, tablets, cameras, shopping registers, and emerging technology devices like Google glasses with a computer attached. Anywhere you go, even at home, these are there. And they are somehow becoming interconnected with each other. Did you notice that many websites now allow you to sign in not just through themselves but through other sites like Facebook and Twitter?
The Human Factor
We as humans have to find a way to adapt to this in one way or another. Some refuse to engage and go live in a technology-less sub-cultural systems. But that is quite rare and very challenging. So more of us are using SMT as said above. That means we will come in contact with all kinds of characters through this virtual world. These include, regular everyday folks, friends, family, business owners, huge business entities, artists, entertainers, the vain, people with political agendas, those who want to do good for the world, bullies...the list goes on. We have to learn how to use common sense manners and caution to get through our days avoiding the bad seeds out there.
Benefits and Transformation
SMT has changed from simply sharing information in a virtual environment, to a way of creating and establishing a presence and reputation in both the virtual and real world. This includes making money, career, health, social engagement and many other facets of our lives. It is literally changing the way we as humans communicate, process about share information.
Our brains have something Neuro-scientists call Neuroplasticity. That is, are brains our much more flexible in its neural connection that we ever thought possible. We can learn new things in amazing, previously unknown ways. With social media and current technology our brains are literally processing information/data differently.
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It can make life easier in many ways if used properly. From paying bills, finding information fast. to sending out instant messages. The days of the carrier pigeons are gone. In addition, the below is also possible:
- Anyone can be a “star”
- Connections with things you care about (niche interests)
- Money can potentially be made (e-commerce) and other goods and services can be exchanged
- There is a global reach. At no other time, have we been able to reach anyone, anywhere in the world about anything. As long as they have access to the technology, we can reach out to each other. So when we say the world wide web or interconnection, it is quite literal.
- It has become one of the best for hearing about breaking news anywhere in the world.
- It can help create romantic relationships, business liaisons, and humane causes
- Can have a positive impact psychologically by being in the know on so many issues and information that otherwise be inaccessible
- Used for teaching and working better
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Why Hate SMT
The reasons to hate SMT are the opposite of the reasons to love it. - It’s complexity--it can be extremely hard to use and understand
- Bombardment of info--too much too fast
- Feeling disconnected
- Relationships can be destroyed (all kinds)
- One can be bullied, staked by predators including sexual predators from anywhere, at anytime
- A target by spammers, scammers and all kinds cyber criminals
- Our privacy is decreasing exponentially (cameras everywhere) we can even be seen by our monitors and home cameras in our own home
- We can be left behind by society if we are not caught up with this virtual world movement
Despite Loving or Hating, What to do with it?
Although the feelings toward SMT are all over the place, there are benefits to using any of these platforms. It all depends on what your goals are. The tricky issue is that much of this technology is moving so fast it's hard to figure out if your goals are in tune with the technology itself. Either way, you have to start somewhere and probably already have. So consider:
~If you just like to watch, read, learn and observe any of these will be fun to try.
~If you want to participate, communicate actively, write, add photos, videos, or any content, each of these has different ways you can do this and it depends on what is your favorite style.
~If you want to avoid it as much as possible, at least know what any particular SMT is being used for and if one day it will affect you directly or indirectly.
The Big and Popular ones ones...I have either put the general link (if it's available) or a link to a page I use for you to see how I'm using some of these.
~If you just like to watch, read, learn and observe any of these will be fun to try.
~If you want to participate, communicate actively, write, add photos, videos, or any content, each of these has different ways you can do this and it depends on what is your favorite style.
~If you want to avoid it as much as possible, at least know what any particular SMT is being used for and if one day it will affect you directly or indirectly.
The Big and Popular ones ones...I have either put the general link (if it's available) or a link to a page I use for you to see how I'm using some of these.
Niche Social Media and applications for reviews, discounts and more
- Yelp
- Groupon
- Living Social
- Virtual reality/world with avatars etc (you can do an online search for these)
- LiveDeal.com
- Retailmenot
Other niche, evolving apps
- QR code
- Goto Meeting- virtual business meetings, webinars and conferences (online search)
Sites and Apps For Dating
As the title states, SMT is here to stay. You can hate it, love it but will eventually use it so why not get to know it.
Want to know more? Schedule a coaching session on this and other issues at This is Diana.
~Always with Love, Light and Common Sense Manners~
Diana Navarro, M.S.
On a Quest to Bring Common Sense Manners Back!
Sunday, June 8, 2014
Are you Breathing?? Make EVERYTHING Better with Conscious Breathing
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What is Pranayama (conscious)
Breathing?
How are you breathing right now? I can't tell you how many times I've caught myself breathing shallow and too fast. This is due to the years of anxiety attacks I've had. But with time, information and tons of practice I remind myself to breathe a little deeper and slower. I'll share what I've learned below about what they call in Yoga Pranayama. This is conscious breathing.
It is hard to believe that what we think it a natural function can be done the wrong way. Meaning not effectively to provide us with the sustenance we need to be healthy, e.g. provide enough oxygen in and carbon dioxide out. In yoga, conscious effective breathing can be as simple as just being aware of how you are breathing to very complex exercises that should be done with the right guidance. For now, we are going for the simple but VERY effective first step--awareness.
This can be done wherever you are. Just notice how deeply or shallow you are breathing. Also notice how often. Do this for a few seconds. You can slowly transition to try to breathe in a bit more deeply but down into your belly (not your upper chest because you won't get the air in the lungs and may hyperventilate). Exhale, but try to control it and do it a bit more slowly than normal. Simply practice.
This can be done wherever you are. Just notice how deeply or shallow you are breathing. Also notice how often. Do this for a few seconds. You can slowly transition to try to breathe in a bit more deeply but down into your belly (not your upper chest because you won't get the air in the lungs and may hyperventilate). Exhale, but try to control it and do it a bit more slowly than normal. Simply practice.
So I ask you, have you had the
opportunity to give yourself the gift of breathing consciously? The good news
since we take millions of breaths during our lifetime you have plenty of
upcoming chances. Regardless of what is happening in your life breath is your
one constant. Your reminder of the spirit the lives within your physical body.
This force, “air”, is always available and free for us to use. Not even water
is free is most places these days. So enjoy air and breathing. Should you be
concerned about breathing clean, healthy air, you are not alone.
If you want to see how to improve your breathing habits overall try one of these options:
~ Go to a source of nature
that has little pollution around,like by the sea. Sadly, this is not always feasible to many
for it requires, travel and some financial expense.
~Find local parks and gardens in your area via websites, there are surprising lovely places just waiting to be discovered.
~Make the investment of purchasing air purifier for you home
and/or work space. This can provide you with some peace of mind that the air you
are breathing is clean, healthy and the precious mixture we all need to survive.
Air purifiers come in different price ranges, sizes, and levels of sound. A
side note, while some prefer silent purifiers, many traditional “noisy” ones
provide an excellent source of white to mask and neutralize other unpleasant
noises.
~The humble plant. This is the best and most natural purifier known. Get a few, love them and they will reward you with fresh air, beauty and much more.
Continue to pay attention to your breathing to insure
healthy habits that increase your oxygen intake and lessen the effects of bad
breathing habits. It is a really good idea to practice pranayama anytime you remember to do so. It has an incredible way of making you more mindful and
self-aware. Please use this section as a reminder to practice the simple form
of pranayama we did above—belly-breathing.
And if you need convincing, here is what simple conscious breathing can help you with:
- In alleviating panic and anxiety attacks
- When feeling chronic stress
- When fatigued
- If you have cloudy thinking
- With problems sleeping (and I'm an expert in that area)
- In romantic moments (really!), it makes it 100 times better
- While waiting for news (good or bad)
- Exercising (all types)
- While getting a doctors exam
- Digesting food better
- Honestly, everything
There are many resources you can use to learn more. If you specifically want yoga breathing exercises go to your local yoga studio or do an online check for a qualified teacher. In the meantime, just do a book search or internet search and try what works for you.
And here is our constant reminder of what your breath tells you on the regular basis.
When you are feeling relaxed, like when you are sleeping, your exhalation is twice as long as your inhalation. Keep in mind that anger, your breathing is shallow. Imagine how little oxygen your brain is getting during this time. and when feeling frightened or anxious you tend to hold your breath. No oxygen = no good. So as I always say....BREATHE
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Want to know more? Schedule a coaching session on this and other issues at This is Diana.
~Always with Love, Light and Common Sense Manners~
Diana Navarro, M.S.
On a Quest to Bring Common Sense Manners Back!
www.Thisisdiana.com
Yoga's Secret--Mudras (Hand Postures)
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Millions of people do yoga. But many don't know about one of the secrets of the movement of energy lie in your hands. They are the hand postures called Mudras.
What are Mudras?
Did you know you do Mudras everyday? Unbeknownst to many of
us, we use what is defined as hand gestures. But it gets more interesting. These
hand gestures have symbolic meaning and also the ability to move the energy
within us and around in certain ways.
In other words, they are connected to yoga. In addition to physical postures, breathing exercises,
meditation and vocalization, mudras can enhance your ability to yoke and
balance your life in an elegant manner. You don’t have to be an expert in any
religion or science to enjoy the benefits mudras can bring. In fact, it’s a
great way to enhance any meditation or relaxation practice. Mudras can also be
used in physical hand therapies and help in the process of emotional healing. In fact, madras can be used to manifest certain outcomes.
The beauty of mudras is that they can be practiced anywhere
and be held as long as you like. With practice, an innate knowledge usually
develops on which gestures work best for each individual. Like the rest of our
bodies, the hands process quite a bit of physical and subtle/non-physical
energy. Whether we mean simple circulation or a person to person communication
tool, our hands are incredibly powerful. Mudras can be used to promote healthy
and optimum energy flow to and from our hands.
We are mostly familiar with mudras that have a so-called
neutral meaning like pointing your finger or crossing our fingers. We also are familiar
with mudras that have an insulting intention, like giving someone “the finger”.
However, there are mudras that we actively do on the regular basis that have an
incredible power potential once we are attuned to it.
The Linga Mudra
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Here is an example of one of a commonly used mudras; but this time with intention and
purpose.
We’ll work with fingers crossed mudra. It is called upright
mudra or Linga mudra as seen in the above illustration.
Place both hands
together with one thumb remaining upright.
This has benefits that make worth
doing it on the regular basis.
The Linga Mudra:
- Can help assist in your weight loss goals when used in conjunction to a healthy diet, drinking lots of water and increase in physical activity.
- Increased resistance to colds, coughs and any infection of the chest.
- And if you suffer respiratory problems, this mudra can help loosen mucus in the lungs.
There is so much more info out there on postures you can use and I trust you are excited to find out more.
Want to know more? Schedule a coaching session on this and other issues at This is Diana.
~Always with Love, Light and Common Sense Manners~
Diana Navarro, M.S.
On a Quest to Bring Manners Back!
www.Thisisdiana.com
Sunday, June 1, 2014
This is Diana News, Updates and Events
Hello and Happy Spring to
YOU!!!
I’m happy to be able to send
you an update because you know it’s been awhile. First, let me thank all of you
who have been with me for the past several years.
You know the ups and downs I
have experienced and how I like to share love and assistance no matter what. I
want to welcome those who have recently signed up to be in the know of all that
This Is Diana is.
I have fine tuned what I do
and ask you to join me on my quest to Bring
Common Sense Manners Back and facilitate Spiritual Awakening and Emergence.
Let me take this opportunity
to answer some of your questions and update you on a few services and events
via newsletters, and social media. My Facebook business Page can be accessed
and “Liked” . I have am almost at the milestone of 1000 likes so go ahead and
check if you haven’t already.
Events and Singing
Yes I am still doing events
but I have learned quite a bit from the ones I’ve done in the past few years. I
always strive to do events where we are all celebrating something, making new
connections and can walk away with something to cherish.
The next scheduled event is
my birthday. I like to think of this way of getting people together to thank
them for being in my life in celebratory way. If you have not received your
invite, which send via Evites,
and or Facebook,
please let know and I will resend it to you. All details are there and I am
really looking forward to turning the big 44!
Psychic Readings
Yes and no. I am doing
Spiritual Coaching which is a more accurate description for what I’ve always done
and continue to do. You can find so much more on my website which I have yet
again improved to make it easy and enjoyable to browse. I have also enabled it
to be used for mobile devices so you can schedule a session from anywhere. Simply check This is Diana
Writings
I
have been working on my two books and am almost done with both. The first
is 1) You’re not Crazy, It’s Paranormal! Real
Stories, Insights and Photos of Orbs For Those Who Think They’re Going Insane
because of a Spiritual Awakening or the Supernatural, and
2) Oh No You Didn’t: The
Quest to Eliminate Rudeness and Bring Common Sense Manners Back
Each of these have been in
the making for years so it is no wonder why you will see more and more about
these two projects. I will keep you updated on when they will be published and
how to get your copy. In the meantime, I will still do topical blog entries and
other writings.
Radio and Commentary
I still do have the “This is
Diana” radio on Blog Talk Radio. You can check that on my website or on theirs
any time. I do shows depending on guests and topics hence will announce them
accordingly. I am also having more media sources interview as I continue to
work on my writings, do my work with “The Psychics” and my future one woman
show.
Entertainment
Aside from singing I am on
board with New Apple Productions and working on “The Psychics” as I just
mentioned. Please do check that page as well on The Psychics TV Show on Facebook.
You are now caught up! If
you have any questions, contact me and I’ll be happy to answer it. Enjoy the
Spring time and every moment as it comes.
~Always with Love, Light and Common Sense Manners~
Diana Navarro, M.S.
On a Quest to Bring Manners Back!
www.Thisisdiana.com
Diana Navarro, M.S.
On a Quest to Bring Manners Back!
www.Thisisdiana.com
Sunday, April 6, 2014
Saturday, March 8, 2014
What Makes an Empathic/Intuitive Consultation Session
The intuitive work I perform is a culmination of 25 years of
crisis counseling, academic advising, business consulting, academic and
independent research analysis, and interpretation, spiritual inquiry,
conducting workshops, lectures and seminars, and musical performance, personal
fitness experience in restorative yoga and strength training to promote health
of body, mind and spirit.
I am an empath-Empaths are extremely
sensitive to their environment, people and animals. They literally “feel” and
sense what others feel in many ways. Some are more sensitive than others and
display psychic abilities via feeling, hearing, hearing what others do, visual
flashes, dreams, and connecting synchronicities.
Intuitive healing takes various forms
The most common type is one on one consultation with one or
more individual. During these consultations various tools are used. What tool
is used depends on the clients preference, comfort level and healers intuition.
Examples of tools used include, handwriting analysis,
Archetypal visual cards, like Tarot, Sacred Geometry, Angel cards and Jungian
I-Ching. Through these transactions the following can be achieved.
1. Client
receives confirmation on what the he/she senses, feels, has a hunch about or
intuits.
2.
An opportunity for a transformation of consciousness which may be exclusive of
the success or failure of the person.
3.
A safe harbor in which to think aloud, conjecture, verify, or release fears and
concerns.
4.
A concept of the truth without preconceived motives or judgments.
5.
A metaphorical mirror in which the client may review past, present, and future
trends, decisions, goals, and/or actions.
6.
A mental resolution or peace of mind.
7.
Information to improve interpersonal relationships.
8.
Information that encourages the manager to take responsibility in creating
one's environment, personally and communally.
9. Assurance
that the services are for the betterment of all humanity as the intuitive
consultant becomes totally absorbed, beyond personal ego, in the process at
hand.
10.
Information which is objective and discerning, absent of judgment or fear.
11.
An opportunity to view people (w)holistically.
12.
Information that promotes above all Free Will. In addition, independence, right
thinking, right motivations, and right action are encouraged versus
co-dependence or being subjected to other people's attempts to control or to
manipulate.
13.
Information that confirms an attitude of "allowing things to happen"
versus making them happen.
14.
Guidance on how to live an ordinary life in an extraordinary way.
15.
Perspectives on working with the concept of diversity and commonality.
16.
Incorporation of music as a healing modality into consultations, workshops and
humane fundraising events.
Feng Shui
Feng Shui services including creating a sacred space and
space clearing/cleansing.
Feng Shui is the art and science
of placement. The Feng Shui technique
used, combines Tibetan, Buddhist, Indian Taoist techniques with modern
Psychology.
The basic principle is that
moving, adjusting and changing your physical and subtle energy directly
influences the quality of the inhabitants dwelling in that home or
business. Expect improvement of health, prosperity, relationships and overall
balance with their environment.
All Feng Shui Consultations
include:
Explanation of the Bagua and The
Five Elements
Assessment of address your
concerns
Explaining Feng Shui, Cures and
Blessings as well as Feng Shui Topics
An Exterior Assessment with
suggestions
Assessment of interior of home
including each room
Color consultation, when
specifically requested
Suggestions for energy
enhancement and maintenance for each space
Space Clearing
Disclaimers and what
Intuitive Work does NOT do
The client is never told what to do. The tenet of empowering
a person’s FREE WILL is the primary goal.
Options and suggestions are offered, but is it absolutely up
to each client what to do and how to do it.
Fortune-telling and predictions are not part of the
intuitive healing process. Only likelihood of possible outcomes are explored as
to give the client insight.
~Diana Navarro, M.S.
If you would like more information on me and my quest please do contact me. I am of course on Twitter, LinkedIn, Facebook, Youtube, Google+, Pinterest, Blogger, and BlogTalkRadio and all can be accessed via my website: www.thisisdiana.com and
~Always with Love, Light and Common Sense Manners~
~Diana Navarro, M.S.
Finding the Beautiful Things in LIfe--Including Manners
#bitesizehealing
Friday, December 27, 2013
5 Really Good Reasons to Say Goodbye--To Friends, Lovers, Social Media, and Even Your Phone
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Note: This piece is for introspection, you are fully responsible for all choices you make in your life.
A Brief Intro
When I was in elementary school I had to learn how to say hello and goodbye a lot. I went to 6 different elementary schools and had to hear that infamous "Hello class let's welcome our new student Diana". Each time, I was scared to death I would not be welcomed or worse be un-welcomed. By the grace of the universe I was never treated badly or made to feel un-welcomed, but that's because I had a strategy. One I still use to day and will share at another time.
The worse part of moving around was saying goodbye to the friends I made. It was heartbreaking every time. You know what they say, with practice you get better. And I did. As a child and being an *empath, it was extra hard to detach, and even as an adult I have a very difficult time letting go of people and things when the time comes. But the time does come when it is time to move on for the greater good of all.
I deal with a lot people in one way or the other. Again as an empath, I have to be extra self-protective. Something I learned the very hard way. I can't afford to have close and ongoing encounters with individuals who are on a significant different frequency (mismatched goals, ideologies, values) than me. How about you?
Do you know when it's time to say goodbye? As a child I didn't have a choice, I was moving. But as an adult it was a bit more vague. I felt I wanted my "bff" and be with my family/friends forever, but that isn't realistic. People and circumstances come into our lives for a reason. You may not know the reason for a long time to come, but chances are you will know and see the signs it's time to say goodbye.
- When the greater good is no longer served, what does that mean? You know inside your mind and heart when a relationship, of work, personal or even casual is not serving the highest good:
- When there is an ongoing, uneven exchange of energy and resources.
- When there is emotional, physical, spiritual depletion and damage to one or any of the parties involved.
- When you feel frustrated, confused and fatigued dealing with the person or circumstance.
- When you just know in the deepest level, and you do not need any logical reason.
You don't have to wait until you are so sick, upset, betrayed or experience any other negative emotion, before you move into your own peaceful space physically, emotionally, and spiritually.
The key is to move on with finesse, class and proper manners. There is no point in creating more negativity when you are trying to be in a healthier place. Many people wonder just how to do that. Here is when you use that incredible brain you were given and tap into common sense.
Family, Friends, Acquaintances
With personal contacts it can be very sticky. Particularly family and long time friends. But it is your right to have peace, love and good things should you choose it. So you begin with creating boundaries. Oh, I guarantee you it won't be a piece of cake, but it will bring you peace eventually. You don't have to run to someone's rescue all the time. So choose if you want to continue doing this. You will have resistance so prepare yourself. But hold strong, because that will pass. There are also so many support resources you can use to do a little research and give yourself that gift.
Many people come into our lives for a reason. To share experiences with, and/or to learn lessons from. Often, we are not meant to be around the same people our whole lifetimes. This includes family. Once you understand the relationship dynamics, the lessons to be learned, and karmic implications, you can begin to decide how deeply invested you want to be.
Romantic Relationships
This is a topic for a separate and much more involved post/episode. But the quick of it is, that if you are in a romantic relationship, you are absolutely exchanging energy in every way. Is that energy exchange a healthy one? Only you know. Check in with your body, your mind, your circumstances at various times and see what you find. From thousands of people I've consulted with, too many are inexcusably unsatisfied with their relationship. Feeling they give too much and not receive any energy equally.
Don't be fooled thinking, "Oh, this is just a casual fling/hookup/affair." There is no such thing in the true energy field. Most people are settling hoping something changes or until something better comes along. They may feel pass the phase of fixing their karma or learning a lesson but still hold on. This only creates more karma debt and harsh unbalance. Choose now what you want in your most intimate relationship. Peace, bliss, pleasure, joint learning, passion, respect, joy...or conflict, illness, confusion, violence, abuse, heartbreak, loneliness (while with this person). The choice is truly yours. Begin with knowing what your patterns are, who are you typically attracted to, and why? As I said above, personal romantic relationships are very complex and this is just a snippet. There will be more on this in future posts.
Social Media
Social media is relatively new but very powerful. We meet and re-meet many people we would not otherwise do so. This includes old friends, new lovers, business colleagues, and new contacts. With other social contacts as in social media, I can personally tell you, knowing who to stay in touch with and who not to has been a complex issue. I and many others don't want to "burn bridges" or create animosity with social contacts. Yet too many folks are just takers of your information, resources, energy and offer nothing in return except an attitude of entitlement, or even playing dumb. I tell those people the following.
- Don't take it as a personal insult if I unfriend/unfollow/hide you. There is probably little that benefits us being in contact in this manner.
- Should you want to stay in touch and increase the quality of our connection, you may contact me via email, or phone and make a proposal.
- Respect my decision, simply taking from others does NOT benefit either party, yes including the taker.
Your Phone, Car, House, Jewelry, Other Material Object (*not pets, they are sentient and should never be given up unless to a guardian who can better love them!)
We can get so attached to material objects we love them more than people, animals and ourselves. We can even become obsessed with these and that affects the overall quality of our lives. For that, I would definite go to a professional for help. But if you are just somewhat attached, like you really just like your phone or service but aren't satisfied with cost, plan, quality, but feel you must be loyal to it, then you have every right to shop around for something that better suits you. If it's a company, then bear in mind that it knows you as money or a number, not a person so trust me they will not take it personally.
Basically, what I am saying is that it's all about YOU. but in good way. Giving yourself care, love, respect, and boundaries makes it possible for you to be whole. Always remembering that we are in a web of inter-connectedness regardless. But you have the choice to surround yourself with loving people and things. It's okay to give yourself permission for a life of peace. In a world that seems so chaotic, you have control, believe it or not, of your mind, brain, and spirit. Even if someone attempts to assault you, your heart, body and soul is YOURS so cherish it, love it and thank it. Let's get out of victim-hood and into power-hood. Feel empowered to walk a away from things that don't serve the highest good and make room to allow wonderful things to enter your life.
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*An Empath is an intuitive who in addition to expressing empathy (the ability to put oneself in another person or animals place emotionally, physically and spiritually), have abilities and characteristics that go beyond the normal senses. Empaths are extremely sensitive to their environment, people and animals. She/he literally “feel” and sense what others feel in many ways. Hence Diana received psychic information by feeling what others feel but also via visual flashes, dreams, and connecting synchronicities.
On a Quest to Bring Manners Back
With Light. Love and OM
Diana Navarro, M.S.
www.Thisisdiana.com
Psychic--Empath with a Psychology background, Radio and Video Broadcast Producer/Host, Social Commentator/Speaker, Entertainer, Consultant and features topics on Lifestyle/Manners, Humor, Entertainment, Health, The Paranormal and Causes.
With Light. Love and OM
Diana Navarro, M.S.
www.Thisisdiana.com
Psychic--Empath with a Psychology background, Radio and Video Broadcast Producer/Host, Social Commentator/Speaker, Entertainer, Consultant and features topics on Lifestyle/Manners, Humor, Entertainment, Health, The Paranormal and Causes.
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